Vacationing with the Teens
Published Tuesday, November 24th 2009 - Updated Tuesday, November 24th 2009 
A family vacation with teens doesn’t have to be a trying experience. On the contrary, it can be a thoroughly wonderful and memorable experience. One thing you can do to (which translates to more enjoyable for Mom and Dad) is to choose a vacation spot with a variety of things to do.
Give your teens choices. If they only have one or two choices they may feel stuck. If they have a variety of activities available they will feel like they have some control over how they spend their time.
When choosing a destination for your family vacation with teens, be sure to include them in the process. You may be able to pick a good spot without their input but they will be resistant to it because they were not part of the choice. Selecting your vacation idea together lets them know that you care about their feelings.
Create a goal for your vacation that you and your teens can share. Maybe you can all learn a new fun skill or improve one that you already share.
Your teens need their space. When you arrange accommodations for a family vacation with your teens, try to get them sleeping quarters separate from you. You will appreciate staying away from their normal messiness and they will appreciate not having Mom and Dad on top of them all the time.
Another tip to keep a vacation with teens running smoothly is to make sure that there are activities that they can do without you. Togetherness can be great but not constantly. Give them time and opportunity to be off by themselves for a portion of the vacation.
Vacation activities tend to focus on the daytime hours. But if you vacation with teens you need to think of the evening as well. Teens are less likely to want to sit around relaxing in the evening like their parents. Find some evening teen-friendly activities.
If your teen has a best friend, invite their buddy along. This can really go a long way towards making a family vacation with teens a pleasant and rewarding experience for everyone.
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